Best Tips for Online Dating By Derek Lamont (Online Pickup Artist Expert & Author)

Here are some of the Best free tips for online dating by Derek Lamont. Derek Lamont is a dating coach, master pickup artist, and author of The Online Game Attraction System, a best guide for men looking to find love online. When he's not helping men fine-tune their pickup game, Derek is usually found playing his guitar or traveling abroad :

 

1.  Attention All Facebook And MySpace Users... Transform Your Computer Into a Seduction Machine!

 So I’ve been sitting here for the last 7 minutes in awe. 

Why?  Well, I’ve been looking at Facebook’s latest user-base statistics… and let me tell you something.  They are absolutely staggering.  As of right now…there are approximately over SIXTY-FIVE MILLION ACTIVE USERS! 

Now, I don’t have to say this…but I’m going to anyways.  This is a bloody gold mine for picking up women.  But I’ll get to that a bit later…

I can’t even begin to imagine how hot those Facebook servers are running… because that is outrageous. Not only is their user-base absurd, but their growth has been just as despicable; 250, 000 new users every single day that passes…3% weekly growth…doubling in size every 6 months.  Whew.

Apparently, according to this data, no one uses Facebook.  End sarcasm!

We live in an era where almost everyone has one of these little accounts.  It’s almost borderline necessary to have one of these accounts if you want to function “normally” in society… and I’ll prove it to you.

Let me tell you about one of my good buddies. His name was Andrew… and I bet everyone knows a guy like Andrew.

He HATED the whole Facebook/MySpace movement, claiming that he would never…ever…get a Facebook account.  And yeah…when something is as ridiculously popular as Facebook, there are bound to be a good handful of downright HATERS.

But let’s face it.  Whether you’re a Facebook junkie (…logging into your account every single day to check your wall posts and send out a few “pokes”) or just someone who absolutely despises the social-networking movement, you can’t deny the fact that it’s becoming an integral part in social dynamics.

I mean…you can keep in touch with people you would usually NEVER talk to anymore, not to mention strengthening the relationships you currently have... you get invited to more interesting “events”… you get to see what all your friends are up to at any given moment… and you get to meet some pretty neat people if you try!

But anyways… back to Andrew.  He started to feel like his social-circle was leaving him.  No, his friends didn’t stop talking to him because he didn’t have a Facebook account, but you could tell – he just didn’t have as many friends as everyone else did.  He didn’t get invited to as many birthday party bashes or going away parties.  He just didn’t get to know as many people…

You might be thinking…well, maybe Andrew is just a loser!  He wasn’t.  He was a pretty good-looking dude with a good head on his shoulders.

However, it was easy to see that he was a little more “disconnected” from society.  And you know what? After Andrew moved back to Toronto a week ago… even I lost contact with him.

Sad, isn’t it? With some of your “not so close” friends, you almost have to RELY on another communications medium to keep in contact with them… that’s what Facebook’s for.  We might as well make the most of it then.

So how am I going to tie this in with girls?

Easy.

Think about all the beautiful, gorgeous women that are on Facebook.  It’s not a “nerds only” exclusive fan club anymore.  THERE ARE SOME INSANELY BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ON HERE!  But some of you are thinking… yeah… but it’s SO easy to be labeled a “creep” if I message one of them.

I thought that too until I got to know some of the most prestigious and elite “online pickup artists” known to man.

Let me put it this way.  If you know what you’re doing and you set up your Facebook/MySpace profile properly, picking up women on these websites is easy as PIE.  I can teach you this precise method.

And let me tell you it is NOT the same as how you would approach a woman in real life… there are no “multiple threads” or typical “DHV” spikes (Demonstration of Higher Value) like you all may be familiar with.  Doing so can get your account reported or banned for harassment.  Ouch.

So do you want to learn some secrets on how to attract, meet, and seduce these beautiful women?  You can get started by learning how to tweak your profile so you won’t look like another average chump on the internet… Visit Now.

 

You can sign up for my free e-course on how to attract women with just written language.  I also teach some fatal mistakes all men do when talking to women online! Don’t get left out.

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So get with the times!  The laws of attraction have always been the same, but there is a new and easier way to use them. 

 

2.  Can You Use The Infamous 'Poke' Button On Facebook To Pickup Chicks

 A lot of guys ask me… Can I poke a girl on Facebook to start a conversation?  Here’s the short answer… NO!

Sure, it’s a cool little tool to use on your friends… but for picking up beautiful women you barely know or don’t know AT ALL on Facebook?  Not a chance!

Poking a girl (or cyber hugging, kissing, etc.) is pretty much useless… I mean… beautiful girls probably get poked more than the Pillsbury Dough Boy on Facebook!

And just as often, they press the “remove” button to get rid of those annoying pokes from desperate guys.  I saw one of my hot girlfriend’s Facebook account and my jaw dropped.

She literally had dozens and dozens of guys poking her on a regular basis.  Her e-mail account was filled with notices of guys she didn’t know poking her.

“I don’t even have time to get rid of those!” she tells me… boy, was she annoyed!

Poking a girl isn’t unique or funny… nor does it convey any value or induce any amount of attraction.

Really… nothing beats a good, solid, well-thought first message that conveys a LOT of value without sounding too cocky or arrogant… and that COMPELS her to message you back.

Typically, especially on Facebook, this can be tough.  At least girls on online dating websites ARE looking for guys…

But surprisingly, building rapport with a good-looking chick on Facebook is easier than you think!

There are a few key ingredients in a first message that you really need to have.  Listen carefully, here… because the first message is probably going to the most important message... or definitely one of the most important.

One of the key ingredients that your first message needs to have is a strong purpose.  No, telling a girl that you barely know on Facebook that she’s cute isn’t a STRONG purpose.  It’s a rather weak one.

And no… asking her to “webcam” with you isn’t going to work, either!  Too many guys do that.  It’s way creepy if you haven’t figured that one out yet…

A strong purpose can range from a very intriguing open-ended question to a silly little remark regarding her profile picture.  No, a question like “How are you?” just won’t cut it. That may work in real life if you convey strong body language, but online, it must be much deeper… more thoughtful.

You really need to know how to push her curiosity buttons. You need to make her WANT to message you back.

I mean, you can even make a sly little judgment about her… something like… “Hey, you look like you’re on Facebook ALL the time…”

This will make her want to message you back.  She doesn’t want you thinking that she’s a computer nerd that has no life… so she’s going to be compelled to message you back and correct your initial perception of her.

Really, it’s quite a simple mechanism that you can exploit.

Oh yeah, and remember… spelling and grammar is always important.

If you want to have all the tools to build rapport with girls on Facebook FAST, you have to check out my brand new course that I just released that tells guys, step-by-step, exactly how to pickup beautiful girls on Facebook.

You’ll never have to leave the house again to pickup girls… not that you SHOULD do that... but at least you’ll know how to. For the days you’re feeling lazy and you wanna get laid… 

 

3.  This Facebook Profile Picture Will Get You LAID

This is one of the questions I get all the time!

“What kind of profile picture should I use, Derek?”

Listen closely because your Facebook profile picture is one of the most IMPORTANT feature of your profile… girls simply won’t even respond to you if you have that really, really creepy picture.  You know the one I’m talking about… those webcam pictures… the ones where the guy is just sitting there in front of the computer smiling? 

That’s pretty much telling the world… “I’m a creep.”

Give me a minute and I’ll tell you about a picture that WILL get you laid… or at least get a phone number of that really hot chick you’ve been wanting for forever on Facebook!

This is what I like to call the “Prop Picture”.

Do you have a picture of you standing beside something really cool? I mean really, REALLY cool. 

Here… this is a pic that I used that got me SO MANY responses from gorgeous girls.  It was a picture of me standing in front of the Eiffel Tower with a really beautiful girl.
Here’s why this picture is so great…

First, it conveys high value – you’re showing that you love to travel and that you have the MONEY to travel.  It shows that you’re adventurous and interesting.
Secondly, and most importantly, it shows that you’re pre-selected by having a beautiful woman stand beside you.  This will immediately give off a positive impression.

Ever heard of THAT tip before?  If you associate yourself with beautiful-looking women (even if they’re just friends!) you will automatically be deemed as much more attractive.
So that pic of me in front of the Eiffel with one of my gorgeous, stunning girlfriends got me laid countless times.  You don’t have to have something as extravagant as that, though… maybe you have a picture of you surfing or maybe even just playing the guitar!

Of course there’s much more to it than just having a good profile picture… you need to know how to TALK to girls online as well.

That’s why in my program I lay out, step-by-step, everything you need to know and do to get those GORGEOUS girls on your Facebook/MySpace friends list in bed with you!